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Hospitality Tips

Opening your heart and home to family, friends, and business
associates is a wonderful way to enrich your relationships and brighten
your days with friendships.  Here are a few tips to follow that will make
entertaining more enjoyable for both host and guest.
Set the mood - create a warm and inviting atmosphere
Be prepared - do as much as you can ahead of time
Don't argue just before company arrives
When company arrives, welcome them in person
If there is last minute preparation, allow your guest to help
Use good table manners
Be aware of company's needs
Don't spend the whole evening cleaning up
When invited, never ask, "What's for dinner?"
Never be too early (more than 5 minutes) or too late.  Call if you
are going to be more than 10 minutes late.
Take your host or hostess a gift
Upon arrival take cues from host (shoes, coats, seats)
Be a courteous dinner guest (offer to help)
If something isn't offered, don't ask for it
If you do not especially care for a particular food, there is no
need to tell everyone - just quietly pass it on
When using the restroom, leave it in better condition than you
found it
Don't overstay your welcome
Send a thank you card within 10 days
Don't talk too much or too little
Don't pry or ask personal questions
Don't ask how much something costs
When advice is asked, be sensitive and tactful.  Do not take the
opportunity to point out mistakes that have been made and how
you would do it differently
If the phone rings, ask them to call back at a more convenient
time (turn off your cell phone also)
How to Be a Gracious Host or Hostess
How to Be a Grateful Guest
Communication Skills for Both the Hostess and the Guest