Hospitality Tips
Opening your heart and home to family, friends, and business
associates is a wonderful way to enrich your relationships and brighten
your days with friendships. Here are a few tips to follow that will make
entertaining more enjoyable for both host and guest.
 | | Set the mood - create a warm and inviting atmosphere
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 | | Be prepared - do as much as you can ahead of time
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 | | Don't argue just before company arrives
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 | | When company arrives, welcome them in person
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 | | If there is last minute preparation, allow your guest to help
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 | | Use good table manners
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 | | Be aware of company's needs
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 | | Don't spend the whole evening cleaning up |
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 | | When invited, never ask, "What's for dinner?"
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 | | Never be too early (more than 5 minutes) or too late. Call if you |
| | are going to be more than 10 minutes late.
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 | | Take your host or hostess a gift
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 | | Upon arrival take cues from host (shoes, coats, seats)
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 | | Be a courteous dinner guest (offer to help)
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 | | If something isn't offered, don't ask for it
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 | | If you do not especially care for a particular food, there is no |
| | need to tell everyone - just quietly pass it on
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 | | When using the restroom, leave it in better condition than you |
| | found it
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 | | Don't overstay your welcome
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 | | Send a thank you card within 10 days |
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 | | Don't talk too much or too little
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 | | Don't pry or ask personal questions
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 | | Don't ask how much something costs
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 | | When advice is asked, be sensitive and tactful. Do not take the |
| | opportunity to point out mistakes that have been made and how you would do it differently
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 | | If the phone rings, ask them to call back at a more convenient |
| | time (turn off your cell phone also)
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How to Be a Gracious Host or Hostess
How to Be a Grateful Guest
Communication Skills for Both the Hostess and the Guest